The Pitfalls of Volunteer Boards: What to Watch Out For

Serving on a volunteer board is, in theory, one of the purest acts of leadership and service. At its best, it brings together committed people who care deeply about a cause, pooling their skills, time, and networks to create real change. But anyone who has served on one knows — volunteer boards can also become minefields of ego, dysfunction, and misplaced priorities.
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When the Title Becomes the Trophy

There are people whose lives are defined by their board title — not by the impact of the work. For some, the board seat becomes the only “executive-level” title they’ll ever hold, and they cling to it like a lifeline. These individuals often confuse the appearance of leadership with actual leadership.

They love the sound of “Board Member” on their LinkedIn bio or at their next dinner party more than they love the mission. They show up for photos and galas, not for strategy sessions or the hard, unglamorous work that moves the mission forward.

Beware the Self-Serving “Do-Gooder”

Then there’s the self-serving narcissist — the one masquerading as a do-gooder. You know the type: they talk endlessly about “helping these people,” but rarely listen to the very community they claim to serve. Their philanthropy is performative. Their empathy is conditional. And every act of “service” seems to come with a camera, a caption, or a networking angle.

These individuals aren’t motivated by the organization’s success — they’re motivated by how the affiliation makes them look. In meetings, they dominate rather than collaborate. In the media, they speak for rather than with the community. And in the end, their presence drains energy from the mission rather than fueling it.

The Best Board Members Are Grounded in the Work

The best volunteer board members are those who are part of — or proximate to — the community being served. They understand the lived realities of the people the organization exists to support. They ask better questions because they know what’s at stake. They center humility, not hierarchy. They listen more than they speak.

Great board members don’t serve for status. They serve for impact. They don’t need the spotlight because the results speak for themselves.

Building Boards That Work

The best volunteer board members are those who are part of — or proximate to — the community being served. They understand the lived realities of the people the organization exists to support. They ask better questions because they know what’s at stake. They center humility, not hierarchy. They listen more than they speak.

Great board members don’t serve for status. They serve for impact. They don’t need the spotlight because the results speak for themselves.

Building Boards That Work

Strong boards start with intentional recruitment and clear expectations. Organizations must look beyond résumés and titles to assess character, motivation, and cultural fit. Do potential members understand the mission? Do they respect the community? Are they willing to do the work quietly when no one’s watching?

Diverse boards — in thought, background, and lived experience — produce better outcomes. But diversity without alignment, accountability, and shared purpose is chaos in disguise.

Final Thought

Volunteer boards can be transformative forces for good — or cautionary tales of ego and imbalance. The difference lies in who’s at the table and why they’re there.

If you’re joining or leading a volunteer board, remember: service is not a brand. It’s a responsibility.

Desiree Peterkin Bell is a member of a number of boards and commissions. She is a member of the Board of Directors of the A Better Chance Strath Haven Board, a member of Black Excellence Society Advisory Committee and a National Team Member of State of The People Power Tour.

WHO WE ARE

Desiree Peterkin Bell, founder of DPBell & Associates, has been at the forefront of significant issues, policies and strategies that impact various constituencies on a local, national and international level for over 20 years, and has served in various positions in every level of government. She is a strategist and brand builder who strives to identify, create, and leverage traditional and nontraditional media, and define strategies that work. In recognition of Desiree’s efforts, she has been honored as one of the industry’s best and brightest by PR Week’s “40 under 40″; as a ‘Shorty Award’ winner; by the Philadelphia Tribune as “One of Philadelphia’s Most Influential African-American Women”; by Black Enterprise as a “triple threat”, and by Philadelphia Business Journal as a “40 under 40” recipient.